My 40th year... well 41st to be fair .
So this year I hit the big 40... and (naturally by coincidence), a number of changes have hit me hard, starting from a few months before the actual day. I have resolved to do much with my life and the first thing I needed to do was to change job to something I like much more. This came after a harrowing experience (on more than one count) in the previous workplace which rendered my position there impossible. An undermining of character, unreciprocated loyalties and a boredom with the general workflow put me in such a position that I was required to move. And so I did and initially it all worked very well. However, when you give people the benefit of the doubt too easily, you find you might just consider yourself a dupe. Making mistakes on top of that is enough to propel you into a state of despair... although I hope to update you with positive improvements on that one. One of the first things I planned, just before my birthday, was a trip to Paris with mum. We visited all t