Boy, 3, dies in road accident

Boy, 3, dies in road accident

A very tragic accident took place yesterday. Besides my condolences to the immediate family, one should also take a moment to think of the uncle and grandfather, who were with him in the truck. They will bear guilt forever - whether it was deserved or not.

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